What to Expect on Your First Escort Booking
By Today's Girlfriend | Published 3 February 2026
First Time Booking an Escort? Here's What to Expect
Booking an escort for the first time can feel nerve-wracking. This guide walks you through what to expect so you can relax and enjoy the experience.
Before the Booking
Making Contact
Reach out via the escort's preferred contact method (usually phone or text). Be polite, introduce yourself, and state:
- Your name (first name is fine)
- Desired date and time
- Duration of booking
- Incall or outcall preference
Screening
Some escorts require screening for safety. This might include:
- A brief phone call
- References from other escorts
- Employment verification
Don't be offended - screening protects everyone involved.
Preparing for Your Booking
- Hygiene - Shower, brush teeth, wear clean clothes
- Payment - Have exact amount in cash, placed in unsealed envelope
- Punctuality - Arrive on time or slightly early
- Alcohol - Light drinking is fine, but don't arrive intoxicated
During the Booking
Arrival
For incall, follow any instructions given (buzzer codes, parking, etc.). For outcall, ensure your space is clean and welcoming.
The Envelope
Place the donation somewhere visible (like a table) at the start. The escort will discreetly confirm the amount. This gets business out of the way quickly.
Settling In
Most escorts offer a drink and brief chat to help you relax. This is normal and helps establish comfort before intimacy.
Communication
If you're unsure about something, ask politely. Clear communication leads to better experiences.
After the Booking
When your time ends, the escort will let you know. Leave promptly and politely. If you enjoyed the experience, tell them - escorts appreciate positive feedback.
First-Timer Tips
- Don't overthink it - escorts are professionals who help nervous clients
- Be yourself - authenticity creates better connections
- Manage expectations - real encounters differ from fantasy
- Relax and enjoy - you're paying for a good time