Managing Your Escort Inbox: Never Miss a Genuine Enquiry
By Today's Girlfriend | Published 3 February 2026
Email Management for Independent Escorts
Missing genuine client enquiries costs you bookings. With spam filters becoming more aggressive, it's essential to manage your inbox effectively.
The Spam Folder Problem
Email providers increasingly filter messages, and legitimate enquiries often end up in spam. This happens because:
- First-time contacts trigger spam filters
- Certain words in escort enquiries flag filters
- Email providers update algorithms frequently
- Mobile apps may hide spam folders
Daily Inbox Habits
- Check spam folder daily - Make it part of your routine
- Check junk folder on all devices - Mobile and desktop
- Mark genuine enquiries as "not spam" - Trains your filter
- Add repeat clients to contacts - Prevents future filtering
Responding to Enquiries
- Respond quickly - Within hours, not days
- Be professional - First impressions matter
- Answer all questions - Don't make clients ask twice
- Provide clear booking instructions
Organizing Your Inbox
- Create folders for booking enquiries, confirmed bookings, and regular clients
- Use labels or tags if your email supports them
- Archive completed bookings rather than deleting
- Keep a separate personal email
Multiple Contact Methods
Don't rely solely on email:
- Provide phone/text as backup
- List alternative contact on your profile
- Check all platforms for messages
- Today's Girlfriend booking inquiries come directly to your dashboard
Red Flags to Ignore
Some enquiries aren't worth responding to:
- Requests for services you don't offer
- Extremely low offers or negotiation attempts
- Disrespectful or crude messages
- Requests for free photos or videos