10 Things You Should Never Ask an Escort

Etiquette Guide: What Not to Ask Your Escort

Meeting an escort for the first time can be exciting, but it's important to maintain proper etiquette. Here are questions you should avoid asking to ensure a comfortable experience for both parties.

1. Do You Have a Boyfriend/Partner?

Many escorts have partners, others don't. This is deeply personal information that some may share voluntarily, but asking puts them in an awkward position. Unless they bring it up first, keep relationship questions off the table.

2. What's Your Real Name?

Escorts use working names for privacy and safety. Asking for their legal name shows disrespect for their boundaries. Their working name is the name you should use.

3. Where Do You Live?

For obvious safety reasons, escorts keep their home address private. Never ask where they live or try to find out through other means.

4. How Many Clients Do You See?

This is invasive and irrelevant to your booking. Professional escorts maintain their health and wellbeing - that's all you need to know.

5. Can I Get a Discount?

Escorts set their rates based on their experience, services, and market. Asking for discounts is disrespectful and suggests you don't value their time and skills.

6. Do You Actually Enjoy This?

This question puts escorts in an impossible position. Focus on enjoying your time together rather than seeking validation.

7. What Do Your Family/Friends Think?

Another deeply personal question that crosses boundaries. Their personal life outside work is not your concern.

8. Can I See You Without Protection?

Never ask for unprotected services. Professional escorts prioritize health and safety - this request is disrespectful and dangerous.

9. Can I Take Photos/Videos?

Unless explicitly offered, photography and recording are strictly off-limits. This protects both parties' privacy.

10. Will You Do [Service Not Listed]?

If a service isn't mentioned on their profile, assume it's not offered. Pushing boundaries makes escorts uncomfortable and may end your booking early.

The Golden Rule

Treat your escort as you would any professional providing a service. Respect, courtesy, and good hygiene go a long way toward creating a memorable experience for both parties.