How to Screen Clients Safely — An Escort's Complete Guide

Why Screening Matters

Screening is the single most effective way to keep yourself safe. It's not about being paranoid — it's about being professional. Every established independent escort in Australia screens their clients, and those who don't are taking unnecessary risks. For a broader overview of personal security, also read our essential safety tips for escorts in Australia.

Good screening protects you from:

• Potentially dangerous individuals
• Time-wasters and no-shows
• Undercover law enforcement (where relevant)
• Clients with a history of bad behaviour

Screening Methods — From Basic to Thorough

Level 1: Basic Verification

At minimum, every client should provide:

• Full name: First and last name, verifiable online
• Phone number: A real mobile number (not a VoIP or texting app)
• Where they found you: Which directory or platform (this also helps you track which advertising channels are working best)

Level 2: Standard Screening

For new clients, add these requirements:

• Reference from another escort: Contact information for an escort they've seen previously
• LinkedIn or professional profile: Verifies identity and employment
• Brief phone call: Voice calls help assess communication style and intentions

Level 3: Thorough Screening

For outcall bookings or multi-hour appointments:

• Photo ID: Driver's licence or passport (you can offer to delete after verification)
• Deposit: A non-refundable deposit secures the booking and filters time-wasters
• Hotel booking confirmation: For outcall, verify they actually have a room booked

Red Flags to Watch For

• Refuses to provide any identifying information
• Pressures you to skip screening
• Aggressive or disrespectful language before the booking
• Wants to negotiate rates excessively
• Only contacts via anonymous or untraceable methods
• Asks for services you don't offer and pushes boundaries
• Vague about details (time, location, duration)

Using Safety Resources

The Australian escort community has built-in safety networks. Use them:

• Ugly Mugs alerts: Check shared databases of problematic clients before accepting bookings
• Escort forums: Private forums where escorts share safety information and warn each other
• Support services: Organisations like Scarlet Alliance provide safety resources specific to Australian sex workers

On Today's Girlfriend, the private escort forum includes a dedicated Safety Discussions category where verified escorts share warnings and support each other.

Setting Up Your Safety System

1. Create a screening template: Have a standard message you send to new clients explaining your requirements
2. Buddy system: Share your booking details with a trusted friend or colleague before each appointment
3. Check-in protocol: Arrange to send a message at a specific time during the booking
4. Trust your instincts: If something feels wrong, cancel. No booking is worth your safety.

Communicating Screening to Clients

Professional clients understand and respect screening. Frame it positively:

"I appreciate your interest in booking with me. For both our safety and comfort, I have a brief screening process for new clients. This ensures a relaxed, enjoyable experience for us both."

Most quality clients will appreciate your professionalism. Those who don't are exactly the ones screening is designed to filter out. Effective screening also helps you identify the kind of clients worth building long-term relationships with.

Want to connect with other escorts about safety? Join Today's Girlfriend and access our private safety forum — available to all verified escorts.