Escort Safety: Protecting Yourself on Bookings

By Today's Girlfriend | Published 3 February 2026

Essential Safety Guide for Independent Escorts

Your safety is paramount. This guide covers essential safety practices every escort should follow, from screening to emergency protocols.

Screening Clients

Never skip screening. Effective methods include:

  • Phone verification - Speak before meeting
  • References - Contact from other escorts
  • Employment verification - LinkedIn or work email
  • ID verification - For new clients
  • Deposit for first bookings - Shows commitment

Incall Safety

  • Use a secure, private location
  • Have someone know your schedule
  • Install quality locks and security
  • Consider security cameras in common areas
  • Have an emergency plan

Outcall Safety

  • Verify the hotel/address exists
  • Share location with trusted contact
  • Set check-in times
  • Trust your instincts at the door
  • Have a driver or backup nearby if possible

During the Booking

  • Keep your phone accessible
  • Trust your instincts - leave if uncomfortable
  • Never leave drinks unattended
  • Keep money secured before intimacy
  • Have a safe word with your backup contact

Emergency Protocols

  • Know emergency numbers (000)
  • Have a coded message for your safety contact
  • Keep emergency cash and transport options
  • Document any incidents immediately
  • Report dangerous clients to community warning systems

Online Safety

  • Use a working name and email
  • Never share personal details
  • Be careful with location-tagged photos
  • Use secure, encrypted communication

Community Resources

Connect with other escorts through:

  • Today's Girlfriend escort forum
  • Safety alert systems (Ugly Mugs)
  • Local sex worker organizations
  • Online communities and groups

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