Escort Safety: Protecting Yourself on Bookings
By Today's Girlfriend | Published 3 February 2026
Essential Safety Guide for Independent Escorts
Your safety is paramount. This guide covers essential safety practices every escort should follow, from screening to emergency protocols.
Screening Clients
Never skip screening. Effective methods include:
- Phone verification - Speak before meeting
- References - Contact from other escorts
- Employment verification - LinkedIn or work email
- ID verification - For new clients
- Deposit for first bookings - Shows commitment
Incall Safety
- Use a secure, private location
- Have someone know your schedule
- Install quality locks and security
- Consider security cameras in common areas
- Have an emergency plan
Outcall Safety
- Verify the hotel/address exists
- Share location with trusted contact
- Set check-in times
- Trust your instincts at the door
- Have a driver or backup nearby if possible
During the Booking
- Keep your phone accessible
- Trust your instincts - leave if uncomfortable
- Never leave drinks unattended
- Keep money secured before intimacy
- Have a safe word with your backup contact
Emergency Protocols
- Know emergency numbers (000)
- Have a coded message for your safety contact
- Keep emergency cash and transport options
- Document any incidents immediately
- Report dangerous clients to community warning systems
Online Safety
- Use a working name and email
- Never share personal details
- Be careful with location-tagged photos
- Use secure, encrypted communication
Community Resources
Connect with other escorts through:
- Today's Girlfriend escort forum
- Safety alert systems (Ugly Mugs)
- Local sex worker organizations
- Online communities and groups